Top 5 things friends do to make me feel better

[TheyAllFallDown]

my list:
take me out (get me out of the house to have some fun)
give me a massage
call me to talk/send an email
buy me a gift
help with a house chore

[scout]

my list:
take me out (get me out of the house to have some fun)
give me a massage
call me to talk/send an email
buy me a gift
help with a house chore

none of my friends give me massages. maybe i need new friends

[scout]

make me laugh
tell me i'm cute/hot/pretty/sexy
get me
take me for a cocktail
watch a movie with me that i know they would not really have picked

[Noodletic]

make me laugh
let me cry
give me hugs
help me work through the shit in my head
make me laugh

[tornado]

make me laugh
let me cry
give me hugs
help me work through the shit in my head
make me laugh

she nailed it...

[tanowicki]

she nailed it...

Yeah, that would probably make me feel better.

[Ordinaryfreak]

Yeah, that would probably make me feel better.

I love you. :laugh::laugh:

[Noodletic]

Yeah, that would probably make me feel better.

you are awesome.

[Quoll]

What my friends do depends on the friend.

-Acceptance for who/of who I am in total.
-They know my faults and accept me.
-They know my strength and are secure enough to accept that in me.
-The way they maintain their dignity even when disagreeing with me - their loyalty does not diminish their own personhood I guess.
-They love me and allow me to love them.

Which all sounds a bit soppy I suppose, but that's how I feel.

[TheyAllFallDown]

none of my friends give me massages. maybe i need new friends

I'll give you a massage out in pdx, ok???

[TheyAllFallDown]

make me laugh
let me cry
give me hugs
help me work through the shit in my head
make me laugh


When I left for my conference this morning, I thought about this thread, and realized that "be the shoulder I need to cry on" and hold me/hug me were also very important things too... Glad to see them in someone's list!